Those unacceptable persons, bullies, abusers,control freaks, liars, slanderers

 History is quite simply full of the activity of passive-aggresive persons and control freaks.
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History is quite simply full of the activity of passive-aggresive persons and control freaks. These Abusers are often really deceived persons falsely believing they alone have the right to speak and to be heard.. they are generally the unacceptable bullies as well now.. all unacceptable always, still.. God himself does not tolerate, all such abuses. The right of free speech is never a right to lie about others, to bully them, to slander them, to put them down.. These people seem also like to post anything on the net just to see their own name in print.. weird.

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One of the biggest problems you encounter in life, besides alcohol, drug users, pushers, liars,. are the immoral Control freaks. This seems to be a Liberal trait. Of course they want to enslave you, control you for their supposed own positive benefit.. Apostle Judas comes to mind…  Since most people are like sheep and thus easily deceived, controlled.  .
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I can readily recognize bad  control freaks on the net cause they want to give me advice how to write my post, what to write, in fact they want to rather  write it for me.. rather fools is what they really are.. I freely can speak for myself, write for myself now too. You readily find these freaks  also in churches, homes, etc., demonic enslavers is what they rather are too  now. Not much point in being nice to them for often they are too dumb to understand who they really are too often too… and they rarely change.
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Control freaks like the Apostle Judas,  they tend to do they dirty  work in the background, not transparently to all, do have a hidden bad agenda . The Last Supper specifically portrays the reaction given by each apostle when Judas is wearing green and blue and is in shadow,  looking rather withdrawn .
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– With·drawn   v. Past participle of withdraw. adj. 1. Not readily approached; remote. 2. a. Not friendly or sociable; aloof. b. Emotionally .
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An Apostate. Apostasy in  Christianity refers to the rejection of Christianity by someone who formerly was a Christian.;The term apostasy comes from the Greek word apostasia (“ἀποστασία”) meaning defection, departure, revolt or rebellion. It has been described as “a willful falling away from, or rebellion against Jesus Christ,  Christianity. Apostasy is the rejection of the teachings of Jesus Christ by one who has been a Christian… describing those who have  voluntarily and consciously abandoned next their  original faith in the God of  the covenant, who manifests himself most completely in Jesus Christ. “Apostasy is the antonym of conversion; it is deconversion.”
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Mat 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea. 7 Woe unto the world because of offences! for it must needs be that offences come; but woe to that man by whom the offence cometh! 8 Wherefore if thy hand or thy foot offend thee, cut them off, and cast them from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life halt or maimed, rather than having two hands or two feet to be cast into everlasting fire. 9 And if thine eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: it is better for thee to enter into life with one eye, rather than having two eyes to be cast into hell fire. 10 Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven.
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Isaiah 30:21 And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.   http://witnessed.wordpress.com/2013/04/22/turn-not-to-the-right-hand-nor-to-the-left/
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Matthew 10:36-38 New King James Version (NKJV)  36 and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’[a] 37 He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. 38 And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me.;

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Micah 7:6  New King James Version (NKJV)  6 For son dishonors father, Daughter rises against her mother, Daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; A man’s enemies are the men of his own household.;

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Matthew 10: 6    Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.17    But beware of men: for they will deliver you up to the councils, and they will scourge you in their synagogues;18    And ye shall be brought before governors and kings for my sake, for a testimony against them and the Gentiles.19    But when they deliver you up, take no thought how or what ye shall speak: for it shall be given you in that same hour what ye shall speak.20    For it is not ye that speak, but the Spirit of your Father which speaketh in you.21    And the brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against their parents, and cause them to be put to death.  22    And ye shall be hated of all men for my name’s sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved. 23    But when they persecute you in this city, flee ye into another: for verily I say unto you, Ye shall not have gone over the cities of Israel, till the Son of man be come. 24    The disciple is not above his master, nor the servant above his lord. 25    It is enough for the disciple that he be as his master, and the servant as his lord. If they have called the master of the house Beelzebub, how much more shall they call them of his household? 26    Fear them not therefore: for there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; and hid, that shall not be known. 27    What I tell you in darkness, that speak ye in light: and what ye hear in the ear, that preach ye upon the housetops 28    And fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell. 29    Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father. 30    But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. 31    Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows. 32    Whosoever therefore shall confess me before men, him will I confess also before my Father which is in heaven. 33    But whosoever shall deny me before men, him will I also deny before my Father which is in heaven. 34    Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword. 35    For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.36    And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household. 37    He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. 38    And he that taketh not his cross, and followeth after me, is not worthy of me. 39    He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.

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These Abusers are often really deceived persons falsely believing they alone have the right to speak and to be heard.. they are generally the unacceptable bullies as well now.. all unacceptable always, still.. God himself does not tolerate, all such abuses. The right of free speech is never a right to lie about others, to bully them, to slander them, to put them down.. These people seem also like to post anything on the net just to see their own name in print.. weird.
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YES THESE   BAD PERSONS ALSO  DO TEND TO LISTEN TO THE LIES, DISTORTIONS OF THE OTHER BAD PERSONS  AND DO  GET DEEPER INTO PERSONAL  PROBLEMS AS A RESULT NEXT TOO.
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(Micah 2:8 KJV) Even of late my people is risen up as an enemy: ye pull off the robe with the garment from them that pass by securely as men averse from war.
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(Micah 3:5 KJV) Thus saith the LORD concerning the prophets that make my people err, that bite with their teeth, and cry, Peace; and he that putteth not into their mouths, they even prepare war against him.
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Apostle Vincent Young said that “God told me today that the folks that debate has no power and they never heard his voice ever….. Also he had me look at people statuses, and most folks on Facebook, Twitter, etc don’t have the fruits of the holy spirit, they always complaining, arguing, lying on people, gossiping, slandering, coveting other people anointing and material possessions….  God said that’s why I don’t hear their prayers.. That’s why they coming to you asking you to pray for them because their using you for your anointing…. . I WAS LIKE WOW YOUR RIGHT” and  so no wonder there are so many bashers, abusers.. They come in all kind of shapes, sizes, nationalities too.
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Do you yourself know when you are to be submissive to others and when you are to lead? How do you know this? Can you tell the difference between the voice of God and that of the devil now too? Most People still cannot.. sad.

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There is a very dangerous person that  we should be aware of, and even not associate with,   one who is also mainly  the devil’s follower, one  that is the self centered, sarcastic,  withdrawn silhouette control freak.  .

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When the bad PERSON next are  generally in a state of denial, shock at the public exposure of their wrong doings as they cannot face the truth now, they next do try to resort to false suppression, false personal attacks on the author, put unnatural pressure on persons around him,  or delete their blogs and so forth, all showing still their own incomplete repentance, and their false reactions .

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Clearly they the control freaks are some of the People who have lost the fundamental grasp of truths and reality it seems. They are Sick, sick persons who have turned inward, defending themselves from their anxiety and usually hiding from real life in general. The control minded Sickness, Illness can likely rightfully often be associated with the person’s own past actual bad acts, unresolved moral guilt in their own contemporary minds and their subsequent behavior now seen as related punishment for their own past, unconfessed, unrepented of moral wrongdoings that can, does come forth and so such association of cause and effect can really still exists for them as well .
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(1 Th 4:7 KJV) For God hath not called us unto uncleanness, but unto holiness
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(1 Th 5:9 KJV) For God hath not appointed us to wrath, but to obtain salvation by our Lord Jesus Christ
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(2 Tim 1:7 KJV) For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
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You may also seriously want to look more into why some people personally tend to have a large, a false amount of guilt, phobias, unresolved genuine fears too.These bad control freaks their sad present development it now has too often been a long time in the making now, for they did not arrive to this disturbed state of mind likely even over night. Their clear need to control others is almost always still mostly fueled by their self centered kingdom, yes their ongoing selfishness, self centeredness, anxiety, not just their personal fears, and imaginary ones mostly too
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Phobia. [Gr. phobos, fear.] any persistent, irrational, and excessive fear of some particular thing or situation. (Webster’s New Universal Unabridged Dictionary, 1983 Many People who have struggled with phobias understand how immune such phobias where even the irrational fears continue to plague the victim.
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Many “People with low self-esteem experience a high degree of insecurity and jeopardy. They do not feel safe most of the time. One defense is to become a perfectionist. After all if you do something perfectly, you are beyond criticism and no one can hurt you. Perfectionism is an attempt to create perfect safety (which is, needless to say, unattainable). The other safety attempt is to become a control freak and try to control everything. If we can control everything, nothing will ever jump up and surprise or hurt us.
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People with low self-esteem tend to live in a closed system that is hard to break. Because they have difficulty admitting negatives, either about themselves or their behavior, it is hard to reach them. It is especially difficult for someone with low self-esteem who is defensive or in denial to admit that they are afraid. As a result, it is difficult, occasionally impossible, to reassure them that it is okay to be afraid or to be in pain. Their major fear is that it is all their fault. That’s a lie. It is not all their fault, but it’s a lie that’s hard to surrender.”
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People who are doing wrong, doing their own thing without God rightfully still do need to feel guilty about they wrongs they are doing too. Believe it or not if you continually cheat, lie, steal, commit adultery, tell lies, do bad things, etc you will subconsciously even feel bad about yourself and have a very low self esteem too and often falsely try to compensate the void by the false counterfeits still of power, control, more lusts, money etc., to no permanent avail too
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The control freaks emotional stakes includes their own identity and sense of well-being. Being in control gives them the temporary illusion and sense of calmness, a false feeling of superiority. and what fools they are when in reality they are so far from it now too. Face it one now being any kind of a Control freak is a big, bad unacceptable disease.. and it must be treated as such..It is an often clear sign that they themselves are demon possessed. These Control freaks do often have a terrible personal, social life too and they do often make all life terrible for those they live with, marry, work with, come in contact with. Includes now also their having an “abnormal thought processes”. It is like the line from Simon and Garfunkels’ song, The Boxer: where ” a man hears what he wants to hear . And disregards the rest.” and the sick ladies had openly screamed to me, you are crazy, no person in his right mind now takes pictures of flowers, you have an alternative agenda.. clearly this showing now yes they have lost it.. sadly lost touch with reality.
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These are those people who insist on having their way in all interactions with you. They wish to set the agenda and decide what it is you will do and when you will do it. You know who they are – they have a driving need to run the show and call the shots. Lurking within the fabric of the conversation is the clear threat that if you do not accede to their needs and demands, they will be unhappy.. and they will delete your post… Yes the control freaks wrongfully seldom recognize any of their negative behaviors, acts so never mind next openly even now admitting their own motivation fears. Which leads to the question can there be next hope for them.. unlikely.

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Being a control freak is a a major illness . Is there really a cure for it.. If you are a Control freak you are not only still unrealistic, immature, immoral person but you may have a serious personality disorder. , You are a menace, plus a real danger to yourself and to others, for you are an abuser, a human rights violator too. Having clearly now an exaggerated emphasis of your own self importance, being totally in control is part of a cluster of behaviors that can be labeled as compulsive and generally characterized by perfectionism, orderliness, workaholic tendencies, an inability to make commitments or to trust others and a real cover-up for your fear of having your own flaws exposed. You are exposed now still too.. All these type of Persons who believe they can protect themselves by staying in control of every aspect of their lives, or of others, including their relationships are idiots, fools, grossly in error, in need of professional help, good pastoral counseling…
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And who again are these abusers generally? Power hungry persons who are controlled oriented freaks too.. Control freaks do often have a terrible personal, social life too and do often make all life terrible for those they live with, marry, work with, come in contact with. Control freaks are very likely the often very close to you people who are too often personally afraid and are desperately now trying to manipulate others and their environments to minimize their own fears, all now mostly done likely still out of reality, motivated by often their false fears now too. They are the often Fear-driven persons who question and complain to all others unless every task is done by others as they want it too be done, practical or not, to the full satisfaction of their own selfish needs, desires which much always come first. Do they feel guilty living such a clearly selfish, self centered life.. now, not openly and explains why they tend to behave so crazy like too. Covering up for them, falsely denying who they are is also still an act of the other crazy people now too.

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I rightfully believe in the right of free speech, mine, yours, everyone else’s and not solely OTHERS.
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And the continual silent treatment, the clear attempt at ignoring you, even  for days or weeks is  a sign of a mental abuse by them.
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By openly ignoring you they try to falsely say that you are not important to them or any others or that to them you do not exist!! They falsely devalue you as a person and make you feel less as a person or at least  do try to  so  The abuser IS TRYING TO TO DEGRADE YOU TO FALSELY MAKE HIMSELF/HERSELF FEEL BETTER AND  is NOW ONLY PUSHING THEMSELVES RATHER. THEY ARE THE LOSERS NOW. Your recognition of the problem is 90 percent of the solution here too.

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Persons who use this approach tend to escalate next to other forms of abuses also to get their way.  If confronted about this, they are exposed, they next often  tend to deny and deny their course of action, aim, to  lie. There here is basically nothing wrong with you, and remember that, you never really do not deserve this kind of treatment from anyone. It IS mental abuse! These bad people do need to find a better way for  their anger management. The adequate response next is to Tell them openly that you are aware they are upset at you, what they are doing you will give them next  5 minutes to talk about it and to get it out out of their system, and then you do not want to hear or see it again. You will go on with your life. Anyway this absue  only works only if you allow them to abuse you. Go on now, next  with your life even without them if you have too.

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https://anyonecare.wordpress.com/2008/07/17/the-too-common-abusive-silent-treatment/

THE BIBLE ALSO GIVES US PLENTY OF EXAMPLES OF PERSONS WHO WERE TOO QUICK TO SPEAK AGAINST OTHERS..
http://postedat.wordpress.com/2011/08/05/trouble-maker-or-a-timid-sheep/
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Simply walk away – let them try rather to control others. Control freaks or Bullies, abusers, wrongfully do cause  others stress so they can maintain a false sense of order.  
https://stayinhealth.wordpress.com/2008/12/05/dealing-effectively/

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At work, they may worry about failure. In relationships, they may worry about not having their needs met. To keep this anxiety from overwhelming them, they try to control the people or things around them. They have a hard time with negotiation and compromise and they can’t stand imperfection. Needless to say, they are difficult to live with, work with and/or socialize with.

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   “Those who demand the most often give the least.”  Ask them to send you something or do something for you. By asking something of them, you will be indicating that you are not intimidated or diminished by their behavior patterns. In order to not feel degraded, humiliated and have your sense of self and self worth assaulted, you need to avoid being bulldozed by a controlling lover, boss or friend. When you are caught up in a truly destructive/controlling attachment, the best response may still also still be to expose them and to call the police and also walk out.


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Many even professing Christian persons see themselves as teachers, facilitators, coordinators, leaders, when in fact they are still just dictators, bullies, some even immoral aggressive jungle fighters, control freaks who need to repent..
http://stayinhealth.wordpress.com/…/stressful-sibling…/

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Is 56:10 watchmen are blind, they are all without knowledge; they are all dumb dogs, they cannot bark; dreaming, lying down, they love to slumber
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I wish in real life it was possible to get along with everyone, to be nice with everyone, but in real  life that is not true, not possible now-  for 30 percent of the persons I encounter do need to be arrested and be  put in jail for their crimes, for their wrong doings, abuses.. That includes the liars, thieves, control  freaks, bullies now too.. and it does not matter whether the person is a clergy, a university graduate,  professional, a lawyer, civil or public servant or whatever now too.
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Here also is what I know for sure, the older the person is the more extreme, more severe, the more difficult the punishment has  to be on them to cause them to personally to change in their own  negative ways, for they are too set in them now too.
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How much abuse is acceptable.. none.. unrestrained verbal abuses will always always lead eventually to unrestrained physical abuses as well.
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Too many persons now they are trying to change others when they firstly do need to be changed.. http://wittnessed.wordpress.com/2010/10/27/many-persons-now-they-are-trying-to-change-others/
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I have to admit it came to me as a shock firstly when I started to attend evangelical, Baptist, Pentecostal churches in Canada now as an adult that that same right to be respect, to speak, and to be heard, not to be bullied, falsely oppressed, the Legal and Human rights that I had before, often now did not exist in the churches surprisingly now of all places. Never saw so many control freaks, human rights abusers in my whole life next to the too often bad cops now too. And perversely many a despotic, crooked elder, pastor had wrongfully tried to shut me up, and even next had resorted next to slander me, to try to discredit me and what I had said, or whatever. http://thenonconformer.wordpress.com/2008/06/15/bullies-free-speech/

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And who are these abusers generally? Power hungry persons who are controlled oriented freaks too.. Control freaks do often have a terrible personal, social life too and do often make all life terrible for those they live with, marry, work with, come in contact with. Control freaks are very likely the often very close to you people who are too often personally afraid and are desperately now trying to manipulate others and their environments to minimize their own fears, all now mostly done likely still out of reality, motivated by often their false fears now too. They are the often Fear-driven persons who question and complain to all others unless every task is  done by others as they want it too be done, practical or not, to the full satisfaction of their own selfish needs, desires which much always come first. Do they feel guilty living such a clearly selfish, self centered life.. now, not openly and explains why they tend to behave so crazy like too. Covering up for them, falsely denying who they are is also still an act of the other crazy people now too. Yes the control freaks wrongfully seldom recognize any of their negative behaviors, acts so never mind next openly even now admitting their own motivation fears. Which leads to the question can there be next hope for them.. unlikely… so being nice. kind, friendly to a really bad person is still also a complete waste of time, for they will not change their negative behaviors on their own, they see no reasons to do so now still too. Sad but true. Public exposure and exemplary prosecution of these guilty persons is what is generally needed.. and severs everyone’s best interest

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http://thefocusonthefamily.wordpress.com/2008/08/12/more-about-control-freaks/

http://postedat.wordpress.com/2008/07/07/control-freaks/

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In real life yes there are much too many false prophets, self serving liars, spin doctors that we all do need to look out for, and not just the bad car salesmen or the bad car mechanics.; YES you do know that in the daily real life now there are a major amount of significant portion of people in the population that that are unacceptable major liars, OR EVEN PERSONS WHO HAVE A HIDDEN AGENDA, sometimes not that well hidden, and that often now even includes ; HUSBANDS, HOUSEWIVES, too many politicians , business persons, professionals even such as pastors nurses, doctors, cops, civil servants, too many of those who do make a claim they are here to serve you when in fact the are basically still self serving, looking mainly after number one and that is themselves.

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THERE BASICALLY  REALLY IS NOTHING GOOD IN ANY PERSON, MAN, WOMEN OR CHILD

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It ALSO  is not just kids that often get falsely abused in North America, but it is also adults too.. abused by Pastors, so called preachers, bad persons, cops, civil servants or what ever.. it is not surprising when you consider most of them are still very ungodly persons in reality.. the abuse occurs at work, in churches, on the internet.. I have to admit that I was as very much supposed when I met my first abusive pastors, now of many, so next it really was not suppressing to know, encounter abusive elders who maintained this abusive pastor.. Birds of feathers flock together.. it seems clearly.. tell me who you friends are and I can likely tell who you are..

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Do see also

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